Friday, August 26, 2016

Alice, My Fiancé and I Are Moving in Together and It's Stressing Us Out — Ask Alice: Advice for Life at Home

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Dear Alice,

My fiancé has lived alone for two years; me, for three. I'm thrilled we're moving in together, but I can tell that my fiancé is incredibly nervous and apprehensive, as desperately as he's trying to hide it. He's an independent spirit and I don't know what to do to calm him/alleviate his being on edge lately and it's starting to infect my own excitement about this big life change. Part of the anxiety stems from our pets. He has a 5-year-old male cat, and I have an 8-year-old (cranky) male cat. We're convinced they'll kill each other, even though we have a plan in place for a slow introduction. All of this is making me feel incredibly stressed out and overwhelmed. Help??

Signed,
Normally-Content-But-Lately-Harried

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